Bridget and I became *friends* not long ago, but since the moment we *met* sparks flew! We knew that with our combined sarcasm, cockiness, and lack of time, we were perfect for each other. Well, here we are a few weeks later and Bridget has got her hands full with (adorable, I’m sure) teeny tiny, crying, pooping, wrinkly, wonderful ball of joy, and I couldn’t be happier for her. New babies are the best aren’t they? Yes! I don’t think you’d be here, if you didn’t love families and babies too 😉
I’m Drea, mama to wonderful, beautiful, and stubborn: Marlowe. Mama to shedding patient dog-beast: Jerry. And in a complicated, but very loving relationship with partner: Eric. (Here’s a short version of the Eric story: Marlowe’s dad? Not wonderful. Moved 1,200 miles away during my pregnancy. Eric? Totally amazing godsend, better friend, father, and partner than I ever could have imagined.)
When Bridget asked me to write a post relating to motherhood, she wasn’t very specific on guidelines or details, I don’t work well this way. I go into panic mode and think of all these *brilliant* stories and ideas to share with you, then I panic again and think to myself “Alright, I’ve got it! Picture of my kid with the caption underneath ‘my kid is amazing’ and that’s it! Voila! Job is done!” Because, I mean, my kid is amazing…. extraordinary, probably the smartest kid alive, the most gorgeous for sure, hilarious, etc. etc….. but then again, so is everyone else’s kid. That’s part of what motherhood is. It’s knowing that your child is the most amazing thing that has ever existed— better than anything and everything that has come before or will come after. Motherhood is doing everything in your power to ensure you’ve got a warm home and unconditional love for your child, that awesome needy little thing. It’s pretty great.
Everyone’s mothering style is different. Our beliefs, our morals, our discipline is different. The way we show love is different. Our day to day parenting tasks are different. The way we organize our home to welcome a new addition is different.
For me it’s:
organic vegan food, made at home.
occasional co-sleeping (though I am trying to wean this at the moment).
(attachment parenting too)
bringing my daughter into my life and showing her new places as often as I can.
And turning my house into a home– a home that is enjoyable and pleasing for both of us (Jerry too).
Motherhood is different for everyone. Our mothering choices will always vary and work to fit in with our lifestyles. No matter how we do it, I think we can all agree: motherhood is amazing. And the most important thing you will ever do for you child is to make sure they feel unconditionally loved. I mean, your child is the most incredible thing to ever live, right? 🙂